That’s something you’ll never hear when you walk into the door of Boudoir Noir. We understand your likes and dislikes, and would never judge or stigmatize you for what turns you on.
But, overwhelmingly, there's a shadow of judgement that often surrounds the conversation on fetishes. This is something that we are working to change, and we believe that education is the key to that mission’s success. With that being said, hop on in and let’s talk about all things fetishes!
Fifty Shades of Grey has opened the realms of the dark, and unspeakable. It’s given a new light to the darker side of intimacy, bondage, and BDSM. The book series and products have opened the discussion in peer groups, private clubs, and most importantly- between couples, and so many are stepping out of the box a bit more to find their new, favorite pleasures. As with many things in life, there are levels to this madness. We all start out on the bottom, and learn our way through the levels, to the top. (See what we did there, bottoms and...
Does the sound of a cracking whip excite you? Does the mere mention of a spanking plaster a smile across your face? How about the image of your partner's hand-print covering your ass cheek? The red outline of the smack and searing sting they've left behind... does that make you warm and tingly in certain intimate areas? If it did, you might be secretly into flogging! Or loudly, if you're proud like that. Flogging is defined as, “a beating with a whip, stick, or anything as punishment or torture” (Oxford Dictionary). It is often said that there is a fine...
Hot, warm, cold. Cold, warm. Cold! Hot! So Hot! Have you ever stopped to think about how our bodies react to temperature stimuli? What happens to a nipple when an ice cube is rested gently upon it? When we hurt ourselves and pull or twist a muscle, we are told to apply heat or cold, or both, to the area to help ease and relax the muscle tension. In simpler terms, think of what happens to your body when you get cold. Not just a little cold, but really, really shivering. Certain areas of skin tighten, contract, and pull reacting...
They're not just for nourishment. They pucker and contract when it's cold. All mammals have them. Some people like to stimulate them, pinch them, or tickle them. What are they? Nipples! Nipples can be one of the body's greatest erogenous zones, especially once you find a style of nipple play that best suits you! Not only that, but nipple play can and often does result in orgasm! Beginning with the softer side of nipple play, one can master the art of massage and finger play with the nipples. This most often involves the gentle squeezing, pinching, or rolling of the...
