If you’re new to masturbation, we have great news for you: the best is yet to come!
Masturbation is one of those things that gets better the more you do it. You learn your body in different ways and are able to execute different maneuvers exactly how you like them. It’s the perfect place to experiment with new techniques.
Since every body is different, there isn’t a one size fits all approach, but here are some general tips that will take the experience to the next level.
Here are some masturbation tips for vagina owners:
- Make sure that you are relaxed and able to clear your mind before you get down to it.
- Put on some lingerie and admire how sexy you look.
- Breathe deeply throughout — it enhances the sensations you feel.
- Bring your whole body into it. Start off by gently massaging your scalp and work down your body.
- Try it in the bath or shower.
- Don’t forget about your nipples! You can stimulate them too for some added magic.
- Use lube! It will enhance your experience, with or without toys.
- Speaking of toys, try adding some toys into the mix. A bullet vibrator is easy to rest on your clitoris.
- Try watching porn, but be willing to experiment with different types to figure out what you like to watch.
- Wash your sex toys every time you use them.
- Get creative on where you do it! No one said that you can only masturbate in your bedroom or bathroom. Try it somewhere sexy like your couch or your kitchen.
- Remove any judgment from the equation. This is your time to enjoy your own body, whatever that looks like.
- Masturbate with or in front of your partner
Here are some masturbation tips for penis owners:
- Use your imagination. This is your chance to fantasize about anything… What will it be?
- Tease yourself. Bring yourself close to orgasm but don’t let yourself actually cum yet. Repeat the cycle as many times as you can handle it. This is called edging.
- Switch up the pressure and speed of your strokes until you find what you enjoy most.
- Use lube... It’s way better than lotion.
- Try it in a new position.
- If you typically masturbate in bed, try it in the shower. If you typically masturbate in the shower, try it in bed.
- Try massaging the area between your balls and your anus.
- Use a toy like a masturbation sleeve or even a cock ring.
- Add some anal pleasure into the mix! You can stimulate the prostate that way for an unreal experience (even if you identify as straight).
- Switch hands and see how that changes it.
- Don’t forget about your balls!
- Masturbate with or in front of your partner
Try these tips out and let us know how it goes! For all of your toy, lingerie, and lube needs, stop into one of our locations in Fort Wayne or Evansville, or shop our online store.