“I need a VACATION!!!”
Let’s face it—life can be chaotic. Between demanding jobs, endless to-do lists, and everyone needing something from you, your brain (and body) rarely gets a break. It’s no wonder that intimacy often gets pushed aside in the daily grind.
Enter: Vacation Sex. The kind that resets your connection, reignites your desire, and delivers that “we still got it” feeling. Whether you’re traveling to a romantic city, escaping to the beach, or just checking into a local hotel for a night—you’re in for a seriously steamy ride.
✨ Why Is Vacation Sex So Damn Good?
Turns out, it’s science and mood. Shared adventures and new settings boost emotional connection, while leaving work, schedules, and stress behind frees your mind—and your libido.
According to Expedia’s Heat Index study, nearly 30% of people feel friskier on vacation. The hotel room was voted the No. 1 hotspot, with the beach, rental cars, and even tents not far behind.
🌴 Beach Sex Fantasy vs. Reality
We’ve all seen it: passionate beach sex under a sunset sky. It’s cinematic, sultry... and often messy as hell. Sand in places sand should never be, the sting of saltwater on sensitive skin, and the tiny problem that public sex is, well, illegal.
Still want to go for it? Here’s how to play it smart:
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Location matters. Scout discreet spots between dunes or use a sun cabana for coverage.
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Come prepared. Blankets or towels are non-negotiable. Sand is not your friend.
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Choose safe positions. Spoon, lap-sitting, or cowgirl help keep things stealthy and satisfying.
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Bring silicone lube. Salt water = dryness. Never use sunscreen as a substitute!
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Quick rinse. Keep it sexy and sanitary with a post-romp dip in the ocean.
🧳 Packing for Pleasure: Your Must-Have Checklist
Want to make sure your vacation sex hits next-level status? Here’s what to bring:
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Travel-sized lube & toy cleaner. TSA-approved bottles will keep you smooth and ready.
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Toys that travel. Think powerful bullets, cock rings, and app-controlled toys. Check out our favs.
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Chargers. Don't leave pleasure up to chance.
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Sexy lingerie. A babydoll or strappy bodysuit adds spice—and doubles as confidence armor.
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Waterproof blanket or throw. The Liberator Fascinator Throw is great for keeping sheets clean and comfort intact.
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Travel-size sex pillow. The Fetish Fantasy Series Inflatable Position Master is discreet, packable, and perfect for extra support (wink).
💋 Do This, Not That
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Get handsy—touch, cuddle, flirt like it’s your first trip together.
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Try new things—shower sex, toys, roleplay, or even a game.
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Spend more time naked. Walk around in the nude, sleep without clothes—it’s vacation!
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Start the sexy vibes early. Feed each other chocolate, plan romantic outings, tease during dinner.
❌ Don’t:
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Pressure yourselves. Let intimacy happen naturally.
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Skip birth control or lube. Plan ahead so you’re never stuck.
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Go full steam ahead without a rinse. Sand and saltwater can irritate.
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Expect porn-star perfection. Sex on vacation is about fun, not performance.
💖 Plan for Pleasure
While spontaneous, wine-fueled sex is always welcome, intentional intimacy can be just as thrilling. Schedule at least one dedicated time to truly connect. Think candles, music, massage oils—whatever helps you slow down and savor each other.
💼 Before You Go...
Stop by your local Boudoir Noir (or shop online!) to stock up on everything you need to turn your getaway into a sensual escape. From travel-friendly toys to decadent lingerie, we’ve got your fantasy covered.
So what are you waiting for? Book the trip, pack the goodies, and get ready to turn up the heat—wherever your escape takes you.
Vacation sex: it’s not just fun, it’s rejuvenation with benefits. 😘