So, you’re thinking about buying a vibrator? Excellent choice. Vibrators are some of the most popular pleasure toys out there—and today, there are more shapes, sizes, sensations and features to choose from than ever.
But with so many options, it can feel a little overwhelming. Don’t stress. We’re breaking it down so you can find the vibe that makes you (literally) buzz with excitement.
Why Even Get a Vibrator?
Solo fun: Vibrators can help you explore what feels good, experiment with different sensations and learn more about how your body responds to stimulation.
Couples play: Adding a vibrator into partnered play can introduce new sensations, shake up the routine and give you and your partner another way to explore pleasure together.
Basically: they’re fun, they’re versatile, and there’s a vibe out there for just about everyone.
So Many Vibes, So Many Ways to Play
Vibrators have come a long way. While a simple bullet or classic wand may be exactly what you want, there are plenty of other options to explore.
App-controlled toys – Control your toy from across the room—or across the world. Depending on the toy, apps can offer custom patterns, long-distance control and other interactive features.
Wearable vibes – Designed for hands-free pleasure, wearable vibrators can be great for solo or couples play. Many are small, discreet and designed to stay in place while you move.
Air-pulse & suction toys – Rather than relying only on traditional vibration, these toys use pulses of air or pressure around the clitoris to create a completely different sensation.
Rabbits & dual-stimulation vibes – Why choose one sensation when you can have two? These toys are designed to stimulate internally and externally at the same time.
Wands – The powerhouse of the vibrator world. Wands typically offer broad, strong external stimulation and can be used on plenty of erogenous zones—not just the genitals.
And then there are vibrating rings, G-spot vibes, prostate vibes, vibrating strokers, mini vibes and plenty of other designs. If one style doesn’t do it for you, that doesn’t mean vibrators aren’t your thing. You may just need a different vibe.
How to Pick Your Perfect Vibe
Think of this like dating—you’re looking for a good fit.
1. What Do You Want It to Do?
Start with where and how you like to be stimulated.
Want clitoral or external stimulation? Try a bullet, wand or suction toy.
Interested in G-spot stimulation? Look for an insertable vibrator with a curved or angled tip.
Want internal and external stimulation at the same time? Check out rabbit vibrators and other dual-stimulation toys.
And remember, vibrators aren't just for vulvas. There are vibrating toys designed for penises, prostates and couples, too.
2. How Much Power Do You Want?
Not everyone likes the same kind of vibration. Some people prefer a gentle buzz while others want deep, rumbly vibrations with plenty of power.
If you're new to vibrators, multiple speeds can give you room to experiment. If you already know you like strong stimulation, you may want to head straight for a wand or other high-powered toy.
3. Simple or High-Tech?
Some people love all the bells and whistles—apps, remote controls, customizable patterns and long-distance play. Others want one button that says, essentially, GO.
Neither is better. Choose the features you'll actually use.
4. Do You Need It to Be Discreet?
Think about where you'll store and use your vibrator. Smaller toys can be easier to tuck away and travel with, while noise level may matter if you have roommates, kids or thin walls.
If discretion isn't a concern, size and sound may matter a lot less than power and performance.
5. Material Matters
Look for toys made from nonporous, body-safe materials such as silicone or ABS plastic.
When choosing lube, check the recommendations for your specific toy. Water-based lubricant is generally the easiest choice with toys, while some silicone toys may not be compatible with silicone-based lubricants.
And don't forget to clean your vibrator according to the manufacturer's instructions before and after use.
6. Don't Forget the Charger
Rechargeable toys are incredibly convenient—right up until you can't remember where you put that tiny magnetic charging cable.
Keep your charger with your toy or designate one spot for all your toy chargers. Future you will be grateful.
7. What's Your Budget?
You can find great vibrators at almost every price point, from toys $30 and under to premium rechargeable toys packed with features.
Price doesn't automatically determine how much you'll enjoy a vibrator. Think about the sensations, features and design you actually want—and spend accordingly.
There's No One "Perfect" Vibrator
Here's the thing: there's no single vibrator that's perfect for everyone. There's only the one that's right for you.
Your favorite might be a tiny bullet that fits in the palm of your hand, a powerful wand, an app-controlled couples toy or something you haven't even discovered yet.
And your preferences can change. The toy you love today doesn't have to be the only toy you ever love.
Half the fun is experimenting.
Ready to find your next favorite? Browse our vibrators or take one of our pleasure quizzes to help narrow down your choices.
Still not sure? Email us, start a chat, or stop into one of our stores and talk to one of our knowledgeable Sexperts. We're here to help you explore, learn and find what works for you—judgment free.