Picture this: the snow is falling on a cold winter night and you and your partner are stuck inside. Your Netflix queue is empty, you’re a few glasses of wine deep, and you’re looking for something to do. Why not each other?
You turn the lights down low and cozy up. Now it’s time to heat things up and get into the mood — but you want to switch things up and take it slow. Do we have the idea for you!
One easy way to get in the mood for sex is to talk about it… and that can also make it easier to try out some of those sexual fantasies you’ve been keeping to yourself. The 25 questions we’ve listed here are sure to help get you and your partner both thinking and talking openly with each other about your turn-ons, turn-offs and wildest fantasies.
Take turns answering these questions. You can ask them in order, or simply choose randomly. Whether you’re in a new relationship or you’ve been with your partner for decades, these questions are sure to heat up your night!
- What’s your favorite movie sex scene?
- Where is the strangest place you’ve ever done the deed?
- What’s your favorite body part to be massaged?
- If we could do it anywhere without consequence, where would you choose?
- What was your first sex fantasy? Have you gotten the chance to make it a reality?
- Tell me what your favorite sexy thing I’ve ever done for you is.
- What is your favorite part of my body?
- Is there anything you’ve always wanted to try in bed, but haven’t?
- Would you ever consider (insert sexual act here)? (Having a threesome, pegging, etc.)
- What kind of sex toys would you be interested in trying?
- Morning or evening?
- What’s your favorite part of foreplay?
- How do you want me to touch you tonight?
- What do you think you’re best at in bed?
- In your opinion, what does the hottest makeout session look like?
- What’s your dirtiest fantasy?
- What could I do right now to turn you on?
- How do you want to be talked to in bed?
- Would you be open to daytime sexting to get excited before date nights?
- If you snap your fingers and put me in any outfit you wanted, what would it look like?
- What kind of porn do you watch?
- How long have you gone without sex?
- Have you ever used food in the bedroom?
- What’s your favorite music to do it to?
- What is a position we’ve never done before but you want to try?
If you and your partner are ready to really heat up your night, Boudoir Noir has a wide variety of products to choose from. Whether you’re looking for lingerie, sex toys, fetish gear or even just lubricant, there’s something for every sex life at Boudoir Noir. Stop in to our locations in Fort Wayne or Evansville or shop online.