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Backroom Blog — Fetish Friday

Hot or Cold — How Temperature Play Can Turn It Up In The Bedroom

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Hot or Cold — How Temperature Play Can Turn It Up In The Bedroom

There’s something undeniably erotic about contrast—the sharp chill of an ice cube followed by the slow warmth of breath against skin. Temperature play teases the senses, awakening every nerve and turning ordinary touch into something extraordinary. If you’re craving a new way to connect, it’s time to explore the art of hot and cold.

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Sensation Play vs. Impact Play: Feel the Difference

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Sensation Play vs. Impact Play: Feel the Difference

Are you more into soft and teasing… or hard and thrilling? Whether you love the gentle caress of a feather or the satisfying sting of a paddle, exploring sensation and impact play can open up a whole new world of pleasure. Let’s break down the difference—and help you find your favorite way to play.

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"You’re Into WHAT?” Let’s Talk About Fetishes.

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"You’re Into WHAT?” Let’s Talk About Fetishes.

“You’re into WHAT?”

That’s something you’ll never hear when you walk into the door of Boudoir Noir. We understand your likes and dislikes, and would never judge or stigmatize you for what turns you on. 

But, overwhelmingly, there's a shadow of judgement that often surrounds the conversation on fetishes. This is something that we are working to change, and we believe that education is the key to that mission’s success. With that being said, hop on in and let’s talk about all things fetishes! 

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Five less known kinks that you might want to try out this Kinktober.

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Five less known kinks that you might want to try out this Kinktober.

With it being Kinktober you are probably seeing and learning about a lot of different kink & BDSM activities which may lead to your interest being piqued. The list of kinks is continually growing and there are bound to be some you don’t know and that’s okay.  

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Fantasies

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Fantasies

Imagine living out your wildest and most sought after fantasies. Imagine that those fantasies are not remotely mainstream. Imagine being disappointed because what you had built up in your mind, every nuance and detail dreamt of over the course of your entire life up until the point that you lived it, could never be truly realized in real life. This is BDSM reality.

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