Oral sex is amazing no matter how you position it, but when is the last time you changed things up from your typical positions?
Of course, laying down and 69ing are classics, but there are plenty of other positions you may not have tried yet. As you try out new oral sex positions, make sure you let your partner know just how good of a job they’re doing — it could get them hot and bothered!
Doggy style
Doggy style is more than a traditional sex position — it’s also great for oral! The receiver can get on all fours or arch their back to lift their butt in the air while the receiver gives them head from behind.
In this position, the giver and receiver both have plenty of control. The giver can control how much pressure they apply while the receiver can move back and forth or raise or lower their butt to get in just the right position. You may never go back to 69ing!
Face sitting
This one may be up there with 69 in terms of being an absolute classic. This position is as self-explanatory as it sounds — the receiver sits on the giver's face. This is a fun position that allows the receiver to rock their hips back and forth, allowing them more involved and in control than in other positions.
Kivin method
For a more intense oral sex experience, use the Kivin Method. It’s similar to sideways oral, but not the same and is specifically for people with vulvas.
Start by having the receiver — who has a vulva — lie on their back. The giver should then place their body perpendicular. Now, the receiver will probably want to wrap their leg around the giver’s back.
The Kivin Method has many benefits, like allowing for more vulva and clitoral stimulation. It’s also the perfect oral sex position to add a position pillow under the receiver’s hips.
Giraffe
In this position, have the giver lay on their back with their head hanging slightly over the bed. Then, have the receiver stand at the edge of the bed and leans over until their genitals can reach the giver’s mouth. This is a great position for deep-throating, and it gives the receiver the freedom to touch the giver.
Just keep in mind that the position of the neck for the receiver, this one is best for a quickie. If the receiver feels pain on their neck, switch positions.
Standing up
In this oral sex position, the receiver should stand against the wall with their legs spread and hips pushed forward while the giver sits or kneels on the floor. To make this position more comfortable for the giver, put a pillow on the floor.
One of the perks of this position? It can be done pretty much anywhere, so go ahead, get spontaneous. This position is also perfect for seeing how long it takes for the receiver to get weak in the knees!
Edge of the bed
Think of this position as the opposite of the giraffe. Have the receiver lie on their back on the bed, then scoot to the edge of the bed so their feet are hanging off the bed but their torso is on the bed. The receiver can kneel on the floor and have easy access to their partner’s genitals, and if the receiver needs more stability, they can put their legs on the giver’s shoulders.
Oral sex is lots of fun, and aside from switching up positions, you can also try out adding in new toys or exploring temperature play!
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