By: Javay - The Millennial Sexpert
Things are heating up temperature wise and if you like to cool down with some wetness you are in the right spot. Here are 4 different ways to make things more wet and wild, sexually that is. If you worry about the clean up of wet sex don’t worry, you have options. The Liberator Throw eases any worry about messes in the bedroom. It is a blanket that absorbs fluids without them bleeding through to the other side. The throw is a great option if you are using lube and don’t want it to stain your sheets, you’re having period sex, or if you are preparing to put on a water show by squirting.
LUBE!
Lube is one of the easiest ways to make things wetter in the bedroom (or wherever you engage in sexual activity). There are many different lube options from water-based to silicone to oil-based and hybrids. Depending on the activity and if any additional materials, like sex toys or barrier methods, are being used you might want to use one type of lube over another. You should never use silicone lube if you are using silicone sex toys. Oil-based lubes should not be used with condoms/barrier methods as they can break down the material and make them ineffective. You should also be mindful of allergies and sensitivity when choosing lubes. If you are ever in doubt about a lube go with a water-based lube as water-based lubes are universal lubes and safe for all toy materials, all condom materials, and generally good for folks with sensitive skin. If you want to add some lube and minimize mess, lube shooters are a great tool to keep on hand. You can directly put lube in the anus or vagina for sex.
Shower Sex
Take the fun to the shower! If you really want to be wet while with a partner or by yourself the shower is a great spot. If you are going to be engaging in any type of penetrative stimulation you are still going to want to use lube, even with you being in the shower. Water-based lube is a great choice, because the water can be used to “reactivate” the lube to make it slippery again. If you want to add some more pleasure to the shower be sure to grab a waterproof sex toy, like the Womanizer Premium.
Period Sex
Take advantage of some natural additional lubrication with some period sex. Depending on the flow of someone’s period you may be able to skip lube altogether. If you are apprehensive or nervous about period sex and don’t know how you feel about it it is a good idea to have period sex on a lighter day of the cycle. If you aren’t ready to venture into penetrative period sex there are still ways to have fun. You can minimize mess and stick to digital stimulation or just toys and you can wear Lorals latex underwear to really keep the mess minimal. External toys like bullet vibrators are great for period sex.
Squirting
If you want to create the wetness yourself, venturing into the world of squirting is one way to do that. It is important to note that not everyone can squirt and that’s okay. If you aren’t sure, but you want to give it a try here’s some tips for it.
- Be well hydrated: everything in life is so much better when you are well hydrated, but it is extremely important if you want to squirt so be sure to drink plenty of water
- Go to the bathroom: Once you are well hydrated and before you engage in sexual activity be sure to empty your bladder
- Find your g-spot: it is generally about an inch inside the vaginal canal
- Stimulate your g-spot: you are going to want to try digital stimulation (your fingers) first by doing the come hither motion. If after a while digital stimulation doesn’t yield the results try using toys. The Le Wand Stainless Steel Bow is a great option. The pinpointed stimulation and weightedness works well for many people.
- RELAX: as with any sexual activity it is not going to be a great time if you aren’t relaxed enough to enjoy it. Though you have the goal of squirting you need to focus more on fully being in the moment and enjoying it rather than on the task of squirting. It sounds backwards, but trust me.
- Take your time: there is no rush or time restraint on trying to squirt. Don’t feel like it has to happen in a certain amount of time, just enjoy the experience and sensations.
No matter how you choose to make things wet and wild, be sure to prepare your space. The Liberator Throw will be your best friend and make your life so much easier than putting down multiple towels and changing your bedding after every sexual activity.