Let’s face it: everyone wants to have great sex. When you’re having great sex, you’re likely to feel more fulfilled, more connected to your partner, and generally happier overall.
At Boudoir Noir, we are passionate about helping people have the best sex of their lives, so we wanted to share 5 ways to have better sex.
Relax and don’t forget to breathe
One easy way to have better sex is to really be present in the moment. You can do this by focusing on your breath, noticing every inhale and exhale, and pushing any other thoughts away. If you’ve ever done yoga, it’s the same concept.
Once you find yourself feeling fully present, it’s easy to focus solely on the sensations you’re feeling in your body and to enjoy your sexual experiences even more.
Be vocal about your wants and desires
Your partner wants to please you, but he or she might not know the best way to do that.
It’s important to have a constant, open line of communication in the bedroom where both of you can share in-the-moment updates on what is feeling good, what isn’t, and what you need to bring you to the next level. A key step to ensuring that your needs are met is to speak about them openly and honestly.
Build deeper emotional intimacy
When you and your partner connect emotionally, the safety you feel with him or her leads to a greater physical intimacy, too. Thus, working on your relationship on all levels leads to a more satisfied sex life.
Build a deeper emotional intimacy with your partner by asking questions about their core values and formative experiences. Be open to sharing about yourself too, and even consider sharing first if your partner is more tentative to do so.
If you and your partner already know each other well and have that emotional connection, strengthen it by doing something thoughtful or sharing what you specifically love about them.
Introduce toys into the bedroom
Sex toys don’t just have to be for solo use! Introducing sex toys into partner play is a fun way to explore something new and maximize your pleasure.
For your first time using toys together, start off with something that will bring you both pleasure, like a vibrating cock ring. From there, the opportunities for variety are virtually limitless! Check out our best couples toys to find all kinds of things that will spice up the night.
Have an open mind
The most important thing to do when you want to have better sex is to keep yourself open to new ideas. Having an open mind is key to finding new things that you enjoy and connecting with your partner on a deeper level.
For more tips and ideas on how to have the best sex of your life, subscribe to the Boudoir Noir newsletter. You can also find fun toys, lingerie and other products to help you have better sex at the Boudoir Noir locations in Fort Wayne and Evansville or by shopping online.