Chastity Kink — What is Orgasm Denial?

There’s no denying that orgasms are amazing, but hear us out. Orgasm denial is a hot new way to take your sex life to the next level. 

While orgasm denial and the chastity kink themselves aren’t new, they may be new to you. If you’re confused about what orgasm denial is, let us explain. Perhaps you’ve heard of edging, the process of delaying orgasm with the intention of enhancing the sensations when you finally do get to explode. Think of that as a stepping stone to orgasm denial.

What is orgasm denial

Typically, orgasm denial is an extreme BDSM practice where the dominant partner prevents the submissive partner from reaching climax. 

With orgasm denial, you (or your partner) might go hours or days without being allowed to orgasm, all the while being teased and potentially pleasured by the partner who isn’t being denied orgasm. Often, this involves the use of a chastity device, like a penis cage or chastity belt, to ensure that an orgasm is prevented. Some male chastity devices have a dildo attachment that allows the dominant partner to enjoy penetration without allowing the submissive partner to enter.

What to know before trying chastity play

If you’re interested in trying chastity play, here are a few things that you should know. 

1. Edging is a great way to train yourself and your partner for the experience. 
2. There are many different ways that you can engage in play within the chastity kink. As with any new sexual experience, don’t rush it. Take your time and feel out what you and your partner enjoy.
3. Take turns being dominant and submissive to see what works best for your partner and you. We recommend a slow introduction to dom/sub play rather than jumping right in head first. 
4. Be sure to communicate with your partner before, during, and after. By doing so, you’ll be sure the experience is positive and enjoyable for everyone involved.