Do's & Don'ts of Vacation Sex

There’s just something about vacation sex that turns the heat up! Whether you’re planning to travel for a weekend or a month, you’re probably already thinking about all of the steamy ways to get it on while you’re gone. 

But why is vacation sex so good? It seems to come down to a combo of two things. First, we feel closer to one another when we share new experiences with each other like seeing a new city or exploring on an excursion. The other? Without the stressors of work, kids, schedules, and daily life, you and your partner are free to just enjoy one another.

Sounds like the perfect cocktail, right? 

To make sure your vacation sex is the best it possibly can be, we’ve put together a list of do’s and don’ts for you. 

Do: 

• Get snuggly and touchy feely with your partner! A little extra affection goes a long way for the libido. Everyone wants to feel wanted! 
• Relax! You’re on vacation, after all. Enjoy having sex as often as you’d like. 
• Experiment with new things! This is the perfect time to switch it up. Even something as simple as having sex in the shower will add a thrill to your day. 
• Take subtle opportunities for foreplay that you wouldn’t normally experience. For example, try rubbing each other down with sunscreen or a sneak in a quick butt grab as you’re walking to dinner. 
• On that note, be sure to lather up with sunscreen. No one wants to be touched when they’re sunburnt! 
• Bring sex toys that are easy to travel with. Bullet vibrators, butt plugs, and cock rings are great! 
• Pack your new lingerie and drive your partner wild.
• Think about bringing some sexy games to spice things up. 
• Spend some extra time naked. You can walk around the room naked, get ready with no clothes on, and sleep in the nude, especially if that’s not a luxury you have at home with children who could bust in the room at any moment. 

Don’t:

• Put too many expectations or too much pressure on having vacation sex. Allow yourself to live in the moment and have sex as often or as little as feels organic. 
• Have sex in the water or on the beach. Aside from potentially getting in trouble for being publicly indecent, sand, chlorine, and saltwater don’t belong inside of you. 
• Forget your birth control. Plan B isn’t easily accessible in all countries. 
• Forget the lube!