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What Is Sexual Aftercare?

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What Is Sexual Aftercare?

You’ve likely heard a lot about foreplay and how important it is, but what about what happens after sex?  Sexual aftercare is all about how you and your partner care for each other after sex. Think of it like tying up loose ends into a neat bow.  If you’ve ever helped your partner get dressed after sex or cuddled up to watch your favorite show together after, you’ve already practiced aftercare! By checking in with each other’s mental, physical, and emotional needs, you can help each other feel safe and seen.  Why it matters Maybe you’ve heard the term aftercare...

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So You Want To Be a Dominatrix

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So You Want To Be a Dominatrix

We all crave control in our lives in some way or another. If you’re ready to be assertive in your BDSM relationship, being a Dominatrix can be an empowering way to learn about yourself and your partner. 

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What is Praise Kink?

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What is Praise Kink?

You’re doing a great job. It feels good to hear, doesn’t it? 

It can feel especially good to hear in the bedroom. If you agree, try exploring the praise kink. People with a praise kink have a sexual response to compliments, praise, encouragement, and recognition.

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Want An Open Relationship? Here Are The Do's & Don'ts To Make It Work

Want An Open Relationship? Here Are The Do's & Don'ts To Make It Work

If open relationships make you curious and intrigued, you’re in good company. They can be a lot of fun and are an opportunity to learn more about yourself and your partner.

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Chastity Kink — What is Orgasm Denial?

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Chastity Kink — What is Orgasm Denial?

There’s no denying that orgasms are amazing, but hear us out. Orgasm denial is a hot new way to take your sex life to the next level. 

While orgasm denial and the chastity kink themselves aren’t new, they may be new to you. If you’re confused about what orgasm denial is, let us explain.

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