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Sensation Play vs. Impact Play: Feel the Difference

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Sensation Play vs. Impact Play: Feel the Difference

Are you more into soft and teasing… or hard and thrilling? Whether you love the gentle caress of a feather or the satisfying sting of a paddle, exploring sensation and impact play can open up a whole new world of pleasure. Let’s break down the difference—and help you find your favorite way to play.

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"You’re Into WHAT?” Let’s Talk About Fetishes.

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"You’re Into WHAT?” Let’s Talk About Fetishes.

“You’re into WHAT?”

That’s something you’ll never hear when you walk into the door of Boudoir Noir. We understand your likes and dislikes, and would never judge or stigmatize you for what turns you on. 

But, overwhelmingly, there's a shadow of judgement that often surrounds the conversation on fetishes. This is something that we are working to change, and we believe that education is the key to that mission’s success. With that being said, hop on in and let’s talk about all things fetishes! 

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How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Kinky Side

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How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Kinky Side

When entering into a new relationship, or even opening up on a deeper level to someone you have a connection with, it’s important to be open and honest about your wants, desires, and needs from a partner. Talking about your fantasies in the bedroom is no different.

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Why Guys Should Be Using Vibrating Toys

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Why Guys Should Be Using Vibrating Toys

Ok fellas, let’s be honest—your hand and a bottle of lotion will always be a classic combo, but it’s time to level up your solo game. Masturbation isn’t just about release—it comes with a ton of benefits. It boosts your libido, helps you last longer, improves your confidence, reduces stress, helps you sleep, and may even lower the risk of prostate cancer. In other words, it’s good for your body and your mind. So if you’re already doing something that’s this beneficial, why not make it even better? That’s where toys come in. Men’s toys have evolved way beyond the...

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