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We know about 69, but what other positions are great for oral sex?

Oral Sex

We know about 69, but what other positions are great for oral sex?

Oral sex is amazing no matter how you position it, but when is the last time you changed things up from your typical positions? Of course, laying down and 69ing are classics, but there are plenty of other positions you may not have tried yet. 

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What Is Sexual Aftercare?

What Is Sexual Aftercare?

You’ve likely heard a lot about foreplay and how important it is, but what about what happens after sex?  Sexual aftercare is all about how you and your partner care for each other after sex. Think of it like tying up loose ends into a neat bow.  If you’ve ever helped your partner get dressed after sex or cuddled up to watch your favorite show together after, you’ve already practiced aftercare! By checking in with each other’s mental, physical, and emotional needs, you can help each other feel safe and seen.  Why it matters Maybe you’ve heard the term aftercare...

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So You Want To Be a Dominatrix

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So You Want To Be a Dominatrix

We all crave control in our lives in some way or another. If you’re ready to be assertive in your BDSM relationship, being a Dominatrix can be an empowering way to learn about yourself and your partner. 

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Hot or Cold — How Temperature Play Can Turn It Up In The Bedroom

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Hot or Cold — How Temperature Play Can Turn It Up In The Bedroom

Exploring temperature play can add an exciting new element to your sex life. Temperature play is when different temperatures are used to excite the senses and add extra stimulation to the body, which has many temperature receptors. It’s often associated with BDSM, but anyone can explore it, even if you don’t have experience with other forms of play in the bedroom. 

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What is Praise Kink?

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What is Praise Kink?

You’re doing a great job. It feels good to hear, doesn’t it? 

It can feel especially good to hear in the bedroom. If you agree, try exploring the praise kink. People with a praise kink have a sexual response to compliments, praise, encouragement, and recognition.

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