Backroom Blog — kinky

Thinking about exploring BDSM? Learn the basics of bondage, dominance, submission, consent, safe words, aftercare, and beginner-friendly kink—all in this educational guide from Boudoir Noir.

When entering into a new relationship, or even opening up on a deeper level to someone you have a connection with, it’s important to be open and honest about your wants, desires, and needs from a partner. Talking about your fantasies in the bedroom is no different.

With it being Kinktober you are probably seeing and learning about a lot of different kink & BDSM activities which may lead to your interest being piqued. The list of kinks is continually growing and there are bound to be some you don’t know and that’s okay.  

Imagine living out your wildest and most sought after fantasies. Imagine that those fantasies are not remotely mainstream. Imagine being disappointed because what you had built up in your mind, every nuance and detail dreamt of over the course of your entire life up until the point that you lived it, could never be truly realized in real life. This is BDSM reality.

By: Ethereal Creation

We were reaching the end of the session he had paid for. I had put him through the paces thoroughly. After being bound, blindfolded, and beaten for the last 45 minutes he was near the point of exhaustion. As I slowly unbound him