Want to start your new year off with a bang? No, we’re not talking about fireworks on New Year's Eve. We’re talking about taking that midnight New Years' kiss to the next level.
Think about how often you have sex. You’re probably not having sex every day, but you could be. If you’re in a rut, don’t sweat it. Most couples have been there.
Kick the year off right by completing a 30-day sex challenge with your partner. It’s exactly what it sounds like — having sex every day for 30 days.
Why do the challenge
Having sex frequently can help you and your partner feel more emotionally and physically connected. It’s about more than sex. It’s about strengthening your relationship. A 30-day sex challenge is a way to increase intimacy, relieve stress, and set the tone for the rest of the year.
Being intimate so often will make you and your partner think of creative new places and positions. The possibilities are endless. Orgasms are good for you, after all, and throughout the course of this challenge, you can try to achieve new orgasms you haven’t experienced before.
Ideas to try
Over the 30 days, switch things up by:
- Trying role play
- Experimenting with BDSM
- Using new sex toys
- Reading erotica together
- Trying a new position
- Having sex in the shower
- Watching porn together
- Implementing temperature play
How to make it work
Spontaneity is sexy, but you shouldn’t count on it. To really accomplish having sex every day for a month, you might need to be more strategic some days and actually plan out when you can get it on.
Sex also involves foreplay, so pay attention to how you can get yourself and your partner in the mood. Flirt with one another, try having sex in places you normally don’t to spice things up, and try new positions to keep it fun and fresh. And, remember that quickies count!
Before you get started, talk about the different ways you want to have sex together and get excited. Just don’t put too much pressure on yourself or your partner. Consent is always necessary for sex. But when you’re both committed to the challenge, you can make it happen.
You may end up turning this 30-day challenge into a challenge of 35 days, 40 days, 50 days…
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