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“You’re into WHAT?”

That’s something you’ll never hear when you walk into the door of Boudoir Noir. We understand your likes and dislikes, and would never judge or stigmatize you for what turns you on. 

But, overwhelmingly, there's a shadow of judgement that often surrounds the conversation on fetishes. This is something that we are working to change, and we believe that education is the key to that mission’s success. With that being said, hop on in and let’s talk about all things fetishes! 

Over the years, we always seem to see the stigma and judgment that still comes with the “odd” types of intimacy and pleasure. There are three main questions: WHY do people fetish? What is fetish? What is the point of fetish if its end is a regular orgasm? Any sort of “fetish” is often seen as weird, off, odd, wrong, and bad; when truthfully, it’s just the opposite. The basic definition of fetish is the unusual need or desire for something. Those “something's” can range from inanimate objects, body parts like toes and knees, or certain sexual fixations. People who...