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Fantasies

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Fantasies

Imagine living out your wildest and most sought after fantasies. Imagine that those fantasies are not remotely mainstream. Imagine being disappointed because what you had built up in your mind, every nuance and detail dreamt of over the course of your entire life up until the point that you lived it, could never be truly realized in real life. This is BDSM reality.

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Rules

BDSM beginner fetish fetish fetish 101

Rules

Everyone makes mistakes. At an event, early on in my exploration of BDSM, I walked up to a scene where another Domme was Florentine flogging her sub. I asked her questions and she was kind enough to not chastise me or embarrass me any further than I already just had. 

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Trust

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Trust

By: Ethereal Creation

A couple of weeks ago my newly single daughter sent me screen shots of a conversation she was having with a male dominant she was talking to online. A few exchanges into the conversation he started demanding she refer to him with an honorific to “prove her willingness to submit”. She laughed in response and told him that he was trying to play with the wrong person. 

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BDSM - Introduction to the Community

BDSM beginner fetish fetish fetish 101

BDSM - Introduction to the Community

By: Ethereal Creation

We were reaching the end of the session he had paid for. I had put him through the paces thoroughly. After being bound, blindfolded, and beaten for the last 45 minutes he was near the point of exhaustion. As I slowly unbound him 

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Want to Play Doctor or Dentist? Tips for a Sexy Medical Role Play

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Want to Play Doctor or Dentist? Tips for a Sexy Medical Role Play

By: Javay - The Millennial Sexpert It seems that people either love or hate going to the doctor’s or dentist’s office, but what if there was a way to make doctors and dentists sexy? Did you know that March 6th was National Dentists Day and March 30th is National Doctors Day? Well they are and though the days are probably meant for actual dentists and doctors we think they are great reasons to give medical role play a try, so here are some tips to make it extra sexy. Create the Storyline Before you can play doctor or dentist you...

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