You’ve seen the memes, scrolled past the spicy TikToks, maybe even watched 50 Shades of Grey with curious eyes—but you're still wondering: what exactly is BDSM, and how do people actually do it? Whether you’re brand new to kink or just exploring the idea, we’re here to demystify BDSM, break down what it really involves, and help you discover how to enjoy it safely, consensually, and confidently.
With it being Kinktober you are probably seeing and learning about a lot of different kink & BDSM activities which may lead to your interest being piqued. The list of kinks is continually growing and there are bound to be some you don’t know and that’s okay.
Imagine living out your wildest and most sought after fantasies. Imagine that those fantasies are not remotely mainstream. Imagine being disappointed because what you had built up in your mind, every nuance and detail dreamt of over the course of your entire life up until the point that you lived it, could never be truly realized in real life. This is BDSM reality.
I was sitting at the “bar” of the event being held in an undisclosed location in downtown Washington D.C. I rarely do any type of play publicly. I am just not an exhibitionist. But I do love to watch others and soak in the atmosphere at events. I was approached by a man, and I knew what was about to transpire.
We were reaching the end of the session he had paid for. I had put him through the paces thoroughly. After being bound, blindfolded, and beaten for the last 45 minutes he was near the point of exhaustion. As I slowly unbound him
