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Control

By: Ethereal Creation

I was sitting at the “bar” of the event being held in an undisclosed location in downtown Washington D.C. I rarely do any type of play publicly. I am just not an exhibitionist. But I do love to watch others and soak in the atmosphere at events. I was approached by a man, and I knew what was about to transpire.

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BDSM - Introduction to the Community

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BDSM - Introduction to the Community

By: Ethereal Creation

We were reaching the end of the session he had paid for. I had put him through the paces thoroughly. After being bound, blindfolded, and beaten for the last 45 minutes he was near the point of exhaustion. As I slowly unbound him 

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Want to Play Doctor or Dentist? Tips for a Sexy Medical Role Play

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Want to Play Doctor or Dentist? Tips for a Sexy Medical Role Play

By: Javay - The Millennial Sexpert It seems that people either love or hate going to the doctor’s or dentist’s office, but what if there was a way to make doctors and dentists sexy? Did you know that March 6th was National Dentists Day and March 30th is National Doctors Day? Well they are and though the days are probably meant for actual dentists and doctors we think they are great reasons to give medical role play a try, so here are some tips to make it extra sexy. Create the Storyline Before you can play doctor or dentist you...

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What Is Sexual Aftercare?

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What Is Sexual Aftercare?

You’ve likely heard a lot about foreplay and how important it is, but what about what happens after sex?  Sexual aftercare is all about how you and your partner care for each other after sex. Think of it like tying up loose ends into a neat bow.  If you’ve ever helped your partner get dressed after sex or cuddled up to watch your favorite show together after, you’ve already practiced aftercare! By checking in with each other’s mental, physical, and emotional needs, you can help each other feel safe and seen.  Why it matters Maybe you’ve heard the term aftercare...

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So You Want To Be a Dominatrix

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So You Want To Be a Dominatrix

We all crave control in our lives in some way or another. If you’re ready to be assertive in your BDSM relationship, being a Dominatrix can be an empowering way to learn about yourself and your partner. 

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