Cart 0

Backroom Blog — BDSM

How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Kinky Side

BDSM couples couples sex toys kinky

How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Kinky Side

When entering into a new relationship, or even opening up on a deeper level to someone you have a connection with, it’s important to be open and honest about your wants, desires, and needs from a partner. Talking about your fantasies in the bedroom is no different.

Read more →


Five less known kinks that you might want to try out this Kinktober.

BDSM beginner fetish fetish fetish 101

Five less known kinks that you might want to try out this Kinktober.

With it being Kinktober you are probably seeing and learning about a lot of different kink & BDSM activities which may lead to your interest being piqued. The list of kinks is continually growing and there are bound to be some you don’t know and that’s okay.  

Read more →


Fantasies

BDSM beginner fetish fetish fetish 101

Fantasies

Imagine living out your wildest and most sought after fantasies. Imagine that those fantasies are not remotely mainstream. Imagine being disappointed because what you had built up in your mind, every nuance and detail dreamt of over the course of your entire life up until the point that you lived it, could never be truly realized in real life. This is BDSM reality.

Read more →


Rules

BDSM beginner fetish fetish fetish 101

Rules

Everyone makes mistakes. At an event, early on in my exploration of BDSM, I walked up to a scene where another Domme was Florentine flogging her sub. I asked her questions and she was kind enough to not chastise me or embarrass me any further than I already just had. 

Read more →


Trust

BDSM beginner fetish fetish fetish 101

Trust

By: Ethereal Creation

A couple of weeks ago my newly single daughter sent me screen shots of a conversation she was having with a male dominant she was talking to online. A few exchanges into the conversation he started demanding she refer to him with an honorific to “prove her willingness to submit”. She laughed in response and told him that he was trying to play with the wrong person. 

Read more →

Follow us on Instagram @Boudoir_Noir_